How to Tell the Key Differences in Advanced Ego State Therapy & Ego State?

Oprah Winfrey and Dr Bruce Perry have this wonderful new resource for those who are interested in healing trauma with parts therapy

I was first introduced to Ego State therapy by Gordon Emmerson in 2013. Watching Gordon do a live demonstration of therapy was both amazing and confusing. Yet I was curious for more. He has since adapted and changed his version of Ego State into it’s own therapy modality – Resource Therapy aka Emmerson’s Ego State Therapy.

Personally, I love all the parts modalities and their advocates. My favourite Ego State Therapist would have to be Robin Shapiro, very helpful for those of us trained in EMDR.

Resource Therapy (RT) has been the one I have trained in and now train others in. Better add a disclaimer here – I am formerly vice president of Resource Therapy International (RTI). We are honoured to have Dr Karlheinze Erbe, a psychiatrist based in Bamberg Germany as Vice President of RTI. My current role is Australia Executive Director under the auspices of Resource Therapy International. Gordon Emmerson is President.

Emmerson’s Ego State Therapy was founded by Professor Gordon Emmerson Ph.D. Gordon’s expertise in Ego State Therapy and hypnosis is world-renowned, previously Vice President to Ego State Therapy International (ESTI).

Gordon formed a close connection with the late and great John and Helen Watkins, the pioneers of Ego State Therapy, spending a summer with them in the 1980s.

Professor Emmerson is the author of several books, Ego State Therapy, Resource Therapy The Complete Guide With Case Examples & Transcripts, Resource Therapy Primer and many research and journal articles.

How come we now have Resource Therapy ?

In his transformational work with clients, research, and journal writing, and he found himself referring to Ego States as Resources. Although Gordon respected Ego State Therapy, he was developing his unique model later known as Resource Therapy. Talking with Gordon too it’s clear he wishes parts therapy accessible to more therapists globally.

Resource Therapy (RT) formally superseded Advanced Ego State Therapy from 2014. You will know when you hear or read Advanced or Emmerson’s Ego State therapy, we are referring to Resource Therapy. Gordon says the name change seemed natural as he was always referring to Ego States as Resources (parts).

Gordon as a psychology and statistics professor believed in the need for a RT personality theory. The RT theory of our personality parts evolution forms the foundation of the Resource Therapy Actions. These guide us in working with our client’s presenting issues.

Gordon is a genius in my opinion with his development of techniques directly and rapidly offering life-changing results for ourselves and our clients.

Truly I have both experienced and witnessed this in my own therapy adventures as a psychologist. RT is kind, gentle, heart centred, respectful as a powerful therapeutic tool for change.

Key similarities and Differences in Resource Therapy and Ego State Therapy

Personality Theory

Both models’ view of the personality is one of ‘parts’ that make up the whole. RT Personality theory expands further stating these parts of us are our “Resources” formed in childhood as opposed to Ego States. These therapies originate from a psychodynamic perspective.

Watkins saw personality parts developing from the personality splitting; “split off from the core ego because of trauma” (Watkins & Watkins, 1997, pp. 26). According to RT our Resources are formed through the axon and dendritic synaptic firing in our brains in line with current neuroscience.

RT says all our Resources are formed in a healthy state and there for a beneficial purpose to live our life fully. Hence are termed Resources as they each have unique skills and abilities when in the conscious. It’s great to have a child part of us enjoying being on a swing, riding a bike, or drawing.

This state of health can change if the state is exposed to distress, neglect, or some form of trauma and does not get the support it needs. It will become ‘pathological’ in RT terminology ‘Vaded.’ RT is trauma aware and consistent with the belief in Oprah and Dr Bruce Perry’s book title – (it’s )”What happened to you? Not what’s wrong with you. RT therapists are changologists having skills to heal our hurt parts.

Great book here from a conversation with Dr Bruce Perry and Oprah on how childhood trauma impacts our lives.

Hypnosis

Resource Therapy does not require hypnosis induction or training in its application. From what I understand traditional Ego State Therapy often does. All clients with a high level of focus will likely be in a state of hypnosis. If you know more about this please let me know.

Introjects

Ego State (ES) and RT vary in their view of an Introject. ES may say that Introjects are parts – Ego States and need to be worked with for change. RT says it is only Resources that are our parts. Introjects are merely a type of internal imprint of a person, place, or object held by a particular Resource State.

We work to empower the Resource State using Emmerson’s concept of a Sensory Experience Memory (SEM). Each of us may have parts that hold an internal representation of an introject. Introjects can be positive or negative. For example, we can have a child part that may hold a sense of a caregiver who was unsupportive. In adulthood, we may have a different introject who can see how loving this caregiver is to their grandchildren.

Introjects are not real and we don’t have to alter them or protect the part from the Introject. We can change them or remove them from a personals internal space. I have seen in an CBT imaginal rescripting workshop I attended we were required to put the introject in gaol, outer space or even the firing squad. In RT we only attend to the parts needs and empower it over the Introject.

Resource Therapy’s Diagnostic Framework

Rt therapists are trained to diagnose the problem a Resource State holds and in how to apply a clear set of procedures – the RT treatment actions for resolution.

RT personality theory informs the 15 treatment Action steps. This diagnostic system guides the RT Treatment Action steps providing a road map for clinicians to follow. Working directly with the part holding disturbance and resolving the issue for rapid results.

So that’s my take on the key differences. RT is being trained in Europe and worldwide. Please let me know your thoughts and comments below.

Thanks for reading :))

Yours in service to our healing. Philipa.

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How Elton John’s RocketMan Brings Our Personality Parts To Life!

The fantasy life journey of Elton John shows us how our personality parts are Vaded in Rejection so powerfully.

I’ve just seen the movie Rocketman at my local the Ritz. I loved it. I highly recommend it. This picture is a biopic/fantasy of Elton John’s early life and career. Although I am not a huge fan but I do enjoy Elton’s music. My foot was tapping away in the musical elements. Its very clear how talented a performer he is and the star of the show Taren Egerton. Taren delivers a knock out performance. For an hour or so we are transported on a fantastical journey. Catching a glimpse into another world.

Taren is an amazing actor. I imagine Elton would have been impressed!

Impressing upon us the importance of our formative years and their impact our future selves.

The show dramatically brought home to me how our personality Parts ( our Resource States that make us up and are physical neural connections, formed in childhood) drive everything in our lives.

From Pleasure, Failure, Success, Pain, Perseverance and Progress!

The original Rocketman Elton John a performance legend!

Please let me explain.

We meet young 7 year old Reginald Dwight who’s Dad is unable to show any love or affection to his young son. Young Elton yearns for a hug and unconditional love.

In Resource Therapy terms he will have a Part Vaded in Rejection. We see Dad is caught up in his bitterness towards his wife whom he feels trapped him with pregnancy.

Their relationship is woeful to say the least. They certainly could have down with some marital therapy! Of course I’d recommend it to all !https://MarriageWorks.com.au

Reggie’s Mum’s world orbits around herself and her boyfriend/s. Her son’s needs and uniqueness are taken for granted and overlooked. Again this shows how as a child our Personality Parts can become Vaded in Rejection.

I am not a parent blamer by the way – there is a reason we do everything.

Grandma is a shining light for young Reggie showing him unconditional acceptance, practical and emotional support.

The adult Elton’s longing for love sees him involved with people who are very like his mother and father. Self absorbed and only looking out for themselves, cold and distant.

Some of us will relate!

Naturally we have a deep seated need for love and connection.

Often we will pay the price.

Accepting crumbs of affection, slices of niceness, lashed with layers of disapproval. It’s familiar and what we are used to. Those Parts are starved of love. Anything is better than nothing!

Like Elton our wiser mature adult Resources can get sidelined. He has to see how he is being used by his lover many times before an angry Part helps him take charge. Pretty powerfully – all our Parts are there to help us on our life journey.

Our emotional Parts yearn for love and acceptance.

We all need love and acceptance, Resource Therapy workshops show you how to achieve this for your clients

This is hardwired into us and helps us survive in the world. When we don’t receive nurturance which is necessary to our survival and emotional well being.

Life can go off into the ditch causing a crisis. We may get other Parts who step in to avoid the overwhelming emptiness, loneliness and upset as in the case of addictive behaviors or excessive anger. We see this played out in Elton’s career and his relationships.

In Resource Therapy (RT) we believe our Parts, even those acting out are there to help us.

RT is a strength based model of psychotherapy. Naturally it is a respectful trauma-informed and client centred psychological therapy.

We watch Elton’s showman Resource State come to life on stage in front of his fans. Fully expressing his talents.

Elton’s Showman dresses the part in the most amazing costumes. He goes on to entertain those of us in the movie theatre and his live audience. This Showman Resource personality part has such incredible energy and dynamism.

Still Parts of Elton feel unworthy.

The original Rocketman Elton John as played by Taren Egerton is amazing!
Rocketman Elton John as played by Taren Egerton is amazing!

Those parts start to drown out the negative emotions in order to cope with alcohol, drugs, sex, over-shopping, binge eating, self sabotage, suicidality and anger. Those younger inner child parts are lost in the depths. There is a scene in the movie which is so poignant as he dives into his younger self.

Elton John meets his younger self Reginald Dwight when drowning his pain.
Elton John meets his younger self Reginald Dwight when drowning his pain.

He embarks on his recovery sobriety journey. Here he meets and gives his inner child Parts the unconditional love and a beautiful big hug. There’s a group therapy 12 Step meeting scene where we get to witness his re-connection with himself. I love this scene!

Resource Therapists call out a part to be there on the inside for emotional support and unconditional love for these younger parts needs to be met.

I love this process. So empowering and rewarding for a person to know and feel this younger Part finally getting the loving, hugging and sanctuary it truly deserves. This happens after we have released the Parts perception of rejection, abandonment, disappointment and hurt related to the less than loving experiences.

Resource Therapy training offers the joy of finding a nurturing Part to take care of our emotional needs and give us !

It’s truly freeing and humbling, I often have a tear of joy in my eye.

I love the liberation within a Resource Therapy session as you have a detailed map for dealing with all the emotions and behaviours respectfully.

Watch me discuss how Rocketman shows us our Resource States!

Remember we have our next – Resourcing Clients Foundation Course August 18/19 Sydney click here https://resourcetherapy.com.au/resource-therapy-foundation-training-online-philipa-thornton-sydney/

Love to hear your thoughts, observations – please drop a comment in the box below. Thanks for reading!

5 Crippling Emotions RT Reprocesses Rapidly

Trapped in behind the bars of emotional distress. Resource Therapy has simple system to free you!

While CBT is useful for dealing with unhelpful thoughts, Resource Therapy is spectacular in healing Fear, Anxiety, Extreme Anger, Hurt, Grief, Shame and Disappointment.

Don't let Sadness hold you back. Puppy Love!
Don’t let Sadness hold you back. Puppy Love!

As we know fear can cripple us.

It traps us.

Escape crippling emotions today. Find a trained Resource Therapist near you and get results fast.
Escape crippling emotions today. Find a trained Resource Therapist near you and get results fast.

Keeping us locked inside our homes, our hearts and our minds. Anxiety threatens us daily – how good would it be to be free of this chronic condition?

We can have unhealthy anger and rage. Research tells us it is good to express our emotions. Yet erupting as a volcano heightens not only our blood pressure but those around us. Creating a fearful environment where loved walk on eggshells.

Hurt can stop us from finding love and healthy relationships.


We stay home Saturday night again.

Safe.

Doggone it, Depression sucks. Resource Therapy works to resolve disappointment.

Filled with hungry longing and a nagging loneliness.

We are born to share our worlds and hearts with others.

Grief can sneak up and trap us in a sadness spiral. We are left not knowing or have unanswered or unresolved relationships. Tears flood.

We feel stuck in this loop unable to move to a healthier connection with our past, weighted down in the if only’s, the what it’s, I should have’s.

Shame as we know from Brene Brown’ TedX talks are the silent epidemic of our modern age.

Secretly behind many forms of broken behavior. Resource Therapy gently confronts Shame and Guilt head on. Years of pain relieved rapidly and respectfully.

Don't drown in disappointment - help is at hand with Resource Therapy's powerful protocols
Don’t drown in disappointment – help is at hand with Resource Therapy’s powerful protocols

Disappointment orginates from those cognitive distortions we hold. Where our expectations have taken a plunge. We feel like a failure through job loss, relationship breakdown, redundancy, business failure. This emotion weights us down like a diving belt. Submerging us from life. We drown in plain sight.

Resource Therapy gives us an easily learnt framework for treating these emotions. You will know exactly what steps to take when your clients are disabled by these unhelpful emotions.

Rapid Results from Resource Therapy

In a little of five minutes I share with you how Resource Therapy gets results on the 5 crippling emotions when they overwhelm us. Here’s the YouTube from my Resource Therapy Channel just click the link to go there now:

https://youtu.be/jdNfIoc5fQY

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