A Psychologist Explains Parts Work: The Secret to Turning Internal Clashes Into Smooth Sailing

A diverse multi-ethnic crew of smiling friends standing together on the sunny deck of a sailing boat on open blue water representing aligned personality parts in Resource Therapy.

Ever feel like you’re a walking, talking contradiction? One minute you’re a calm, confident professional leading a high-stakes meeting, and the next you’re completely overwhelmed by a minor bit of critical feedback, feeling like a misunderstood child.
If that sounds familiar, let’s clear something up right now: You haven’t lost your marbles. You’ve just got a lively internal crew on deck, and a couple of your personality “parts” are clashing.

A historic masted tall ship navigating dark choppy ocean waters under a dramatic stormy sky representing psychological conflict and parts work therapy similar to IFA.
When your internal crew is out of sync, it feels like navigating a violent psychological storm.. Source: Pngtree

As psychologists and global parts therapy trainers, we believe the most misunderstood, under-utilised form of human intelligence isn’t something measured on a standard cognitive test.
It’s your Internal Intelligence. It’s how well you know, respect, and steer the different emotional parts living inside you.

When these parts engage in an internal tug-of-war, it feels like your ship is caught in a violent squall. Here is what is actually going on beneath deck, and how parts work can help get your inner crew working in brilliant harmony across Australia, New Zealand, and internationally.

The Myth of the “Single Self”

An antique vintage maritime navigation chart displaying complex ocean routes and a detailed compass rose mapping out personality parts framework.
Your personality isn’t a single point on a map; it’s a vast, interconnected network of internal routes and destinations. Source: StockCake


We are taught from childhood that we have one single, uniform personality. But our everyday language tells a completely different story. Think about how often you say things like:

  • “A part of me really wants to apply for that promotion, but another part is terrified of failing.”
  • “I don’t know why I snapped like that—that part of me just took over.”
    The reality? You aren’t just one lonely sailor on deck; your personality is made up of a whole inner crew. In the psychological framework of Resource Therapy (RT), we call these facets your Resource States or parts.

Every single part stepped on board for an excellent reason: to handle a specific life situation. You have an analytical part for work, a playful adventurer for friends, and a fiercely protective lookout who watches for danger.
Ideally, your ship should operate under a beautifully clear system: The Normal Condition.

The Normal Benchmark: This is the ultimate goal for every single member of your inner crew.

A “Normal” part is completely healthy, grounded, and acting appropriately for the *here and now*. When a part is in this state, it steps up as the absolute best Captain of the Moment to suit the occasion, fully armed with the necessary skills to navigate your current reality smoothly. But just like a real ship crew, sometimes your inner parts get tired, hurt, or stuck in ancient patterns, throwing the whole vessel off course.

The Four Internal Clashes Potentially Sabotaging Your Life Voyage

When our internal intelligence breaks down, it’s usually because an everyday adult part has slipped into a part not equipped for the journey. If you feel like you are constantly fighting your own ship, look closely at these four common patterns:

1. The Vaded Parts (Trapped in Old Storms)

These are parts of your crew that have become flooded (vaded) by intense, unresolved emotions from past shipwrecks. They are stuck in an emotional time loop.

  • Vaded in Fear: Flooded with old trauma, keeping your inner lookout in a state of constant anxiety and hyper-vigilance.
  • Vaded in Rejection (The “Not Enough” Part): Carrying deep feelings of inadequacy and shame, causing this part to withdraw to the lower decks.
  • Vaded in Disappointment: Operating with a low-energy, hopeless tone that mutters, “What’s the point? Abandon ship.”
  • Vaded in Confusion: Trapped in endless rumination, looping guilt, or blame.

2. The Retro Parts (Outdated Navigation Software)

These parts are running on ancient, overlearned habits that no longer serve your current voyage.

  • Retro Original: Old, automated behaviours your other parts dislike, like nail-biting, or defensive snapping under pressure.
  • Retro Avoiding (The Numbing & Scrolling Part): Numbing strategies, like mindlessly scrolling your phone for hours or reaching for an extra glass of wine, are designed entirely to push uncomfortable feelings deep down into the cargo hold.

3. The Conflicted Parts (The Internal Tug-of-War)

This is classic psychological paralysis. Two of your internal parts are vehemently competing for the steering wheel with opposite goals. One part wants to speak up boldly and steer forward; the other is afraid of rocking the boat with conflict and locks your jaw, freezing the rudder.

4. The Dissonant Parts (Wrong Sailor at the Wheel)

This happens when an otherwise capable part shows up at the wrong station. Imagine your strict, hyper-analytical “corporate manager” part hijacking the wheel during a relaxed, romantic weekend away. Planning the next business decision in the boardroom. It’s an excellent, highly skilled part, but it’s in the completely wrong role for the current waters. Here, your romantic ‘partner’ part will be best to be in the driver’s seat.

🧭 Interactive Tool: Map Your Inner Crew

Want to see how your own internal team operates? Click below to try our live interactive parts passport. You can adjust the state of your inner crew to see exactly who takes the wheel as your Captain of the Moment. The link below opens up Philipa’s parts passport as a PDF file.

👉 Try the Inner Crew Parts Passport


Smooth Sailing Ahead: Review and Repair

True psychological agility isn’t about tossing challenging parts overboard or fighting yourself. Mutiny never brought peace to a ship. Instead, effective parts work is all about a supportive process of review and repair.

Our primary aim at Resource Therapy is to step in, compass in hand, to safely review what each part needs, repair the old distress, and guide them back to their healthy, Normal condition.

⚓ The Journey from Mutiny to Harmony

Where You Are Now (Current Reality)The Healing Voyage (Our Steps)Where We Are Steering (Desired Reality)
Flooded Parts: Anchored in past distress.1. Identify & Review: Meet the part with compassion.Smooth Sailing: An internal ship that glides effortlessly.
Internal Mutiny: Parts fighting for control.2. Repair Old Pain: Safely unburden and heal the hurt.The Right Captain: The perfect state leading at the perfect time.
Stuck in Habits: Outdated coping mechanisms.3. Return to “Normal”: Anchor the part back in the present.Total Alignment: A crew that works together beautifully.


We don’t try to eliminate your protective or anxious parts. We listen to them. We help the *Vaded* parts safely release their old pain, we negotiate peace treaties between *Conflicted* parts, and we guide the *Dissonant* parts back to the roles where they actually thrive.
The ultimate goal is beautifully simple: ensuring that whatever waters life throws you into, the part acting as the Captain of the Moment is returned to its healthy, normal state, perfectly suited to the occasion, completely grounded, and armed with the exact skills you need to navigate ahead.

A diverse multi-ethnic crew of smiling friends standing together on the sunny deck of a sailing boat on open blue water representing aligned personality parts in Resource Therapy.
The ultimate goal of Resource Therapy: An aligned internal crew holding clear passports, working together seamlessly under the Captain of the Moment.. Source: Lydia Paleschi

Meet the Captains of Global Resource Therapy

Bringing harmony to your inner crew requires a safe, experienced, and deeply compassionate pair of hands. That’s where we come in.

As the leading global authorities on Resource Therapy, Philipa Thornton and Chris Paulin bring decades of combined clinical expertise, warmth, and down-to-earth kindness to this profound parts-work framework. Operating from our hub in Sydney, Australia, we oversee the growth of this transformative therapy worldwide as the directors of the Australia Resource Therapy Institute and leading voices for Resource Therapy International.

Our mission is to ensure every part of you gets the stamp of validation it deserves, making this fast, respectful, and powerful clinical tool accessible to therapists and clients everywhere.

Whether you are looking to book a personal consultation to find your own internal alignment or you’re a practitioner ready to revolutionise your clinical practice, we are here to support you every nautical mile of the way.

Ready to update your passports? If you are looking for a psychologist in Sydney, or you are based anywhere across Australia or New Zealand and want to experience the rapid, life-changing shift of parts work, explore our global directory to find a certified Clinical Resource Therapist near you.

For practitioners in Australia and NZ ready to upgrade your clinical toolkit with world-class expertise, join Philipa and Chris in our upcoming professional training cohorts online and in person. Secure your passport to advanced clinical excellence on our workshop training page here.

About the Authors


Philipa Thornton & Chris Paulin are General/ Consultant Psychologists, senior international trainers, and founders of the Australia Resource Therapy Institute (ARTI). As the President and Treasurer, they are on the executive committee of Resource Therapy International. They specialise in helping individuals and practitioners master advanced parts work to create rapid, lasting emotional healing.

Last Chance For Bali: Refocus Your Parts Work In Paradise

Elegant promotional graphic for the Bali Clinical Resource Therapy Intensive, inviting past Resource Therapy graduates to refocus their parts work in a warm tropical setting with Philipa Thornton

There is a particular moment in every therapist’s professional life when they realise they do not need more theory.

They need reconnection.

Reconnection with the work.
Reconnection with clinical confidence.
Reconnection with the part of them that first fell in love with therapy because it could create real change.

For many past Resource Therapy graduates, the original training opened something powerful. You learnt to recognise Resource States. You learnt to listen differently. You discovered that symptoms, resistance, distress, avoidance and inner conflict were not random problems to be managed, but meaningful expressions from parts of the personality system.

And then life happened.

Clients kept coming. Notes piled up. Supervision squeezed into the edges. The theory was there, somewhere. The skills were there, too. But perhaps the confidence became a little less sharp. Perhaps you found yourself thinking:

“I know Resource Therapy works – but I’d love to feel really fluent again.”

That is exactly why the Bali Clinical Resource Therapy Intensive is such a rare opportunity.

This is not simply a repeat of training. It is a chance to return to the heart of Resource Therapy – with fresh eyes, renewed energy, and a deeper appreciation of what this beautiful parts-based model can do.

Why A Refresher Matters

Resource Therapy is practical, precise and deeply attachment-informed.

It asks a deceptively simple question:

Who is at the helm right now?

That question can change a session.

Instead of working around the client’s symptoms, we learn to speak directly with the Resource State that is carrying the pain, protection, confusion, grief, fear, rejection, anger or resistance.

For past graduates, refreshing this skill is not remedial. It is professional deepening.

Because the more fluent you become in Resource Therapy, the more you begin to notice what is happening beneath the surface:

The client who says, “I’m fine,” while a Vaded State quietly holds rejection below deck.
The couple caught in conflict, while dissonant parts battle for safety.
The high-functioning professional whose Retro State keeps them moving so they never have to feel.
The therapy client who seems resistant – until we understand that resistance is simply a Resource State trying to protect the system.

This is where Resource Therapy becomes more than a model.

It becomes a clinical map.

Why Bali?

There is something powerful about stepping away from the usual clinical environment.

Not because Bali is beautiful – though it is.
Not because warm air, ocean, colour and spaciousness help the nervous system soften – though they do.

But because distance creates perspective.

A Bali intensive gives you room to remember your own inner crew as well as your clients’.

It allows learning to become embodied again. You are not squeezing professional development between emails, invoices, family logistics and tired evenings. You are entering a focused, immersive environment where Resource Therapy can come alive again through teaching, demonstration, discussion, practice and connection.

And for past graduates, this matters.

Because when you revisit this work after having used it clinically, you hear it differently.

What once felt like theory now has faces.
What once felt like steps now has nuance.
What once felt like “a technique” becomes a way of listening.

For Past Graduates Who Want More Confidence

This Bali opportunity is especially suited to therapists who have already completed Resource Therapy training and want to:

Sharpen their clinical precision
Refresh the core actions and principles
Reconnect with the ship and crew metaphor
Gain more confidence in identifying which part is at the helm in the drivers seat
Deepen their understanding of Vaded, Retro and Conflicted States
Practise RT thinking in a supportive learning community
Return home feeling clearer, braver and more resourced

It is also ideal if you have been meaning to bring Resource Therapy more fully into your practice, but have not quite found the momentum.

Sometimes the missing piece is not more information.

Sometimes it is immersion.

The Cost Of Waiting

Here is the honest bit.

If you already know Resource Therapy has changed the way you see clients, waiting another year may mean another year of underusing a model you already believe in.

Another year of reaching for familiar interventions when a direct parts-based approach might be more precise.

Another year of thinking, “I really should revisit that.”

The Bali Intensive is a chance to stop circling and step back in.

Not with pressure.
Not with perfection.
But with curiosity, warmth and clinical courage.

Come Back To The Work That Works

Resource Therapy gives therapists a way to meet clients where the wound actually lives.

Not just in the story.
Not just in the behaviour.
But in the Resource State that is carrying the emotional charge.

For past graduates, Bali offers a beautiful invitation:

Come back to the parts work model.
Come back to the method.
Come back to your own confidence.

And perhaps most importantly – come back to the part of you that knows this work matters.

Last Chance For Bali – Refocus Your Parts Work

Join us for the Bali Clinical Resource Therapy Intensive and reconnect with the power, precision and heart of Resource Therapy.

Learn more or enquire:
Bali Refresher dates June 10-18, 2026
philipa@resourcetherapy.com.au

The Neuroscience of “Parts” Work: Comparing IFS and Resource Therapy

A clinical diagram of the Memory Reconsolidation process in Resource Therapy. It shows a dark red "Vaded" neural pathway being "unlocked" and updated by a gold "RT Treatment Action" beam, leading to a bright green, stable, and integrated neural network. Labels include Activation, Mismatch Experience, and Updating. Bottom right features the Australia Resource Therapy Institute logo.

For many contemporary psychotherapists, “Parts Work” has become an essential framework for navigating complex trauma, attachment wounds, and inner conflict. This approach views the personality not as a single, unified entity, but as a system of distinct “states” or “parts.” Two prominent models guiding this work are Internal Family Systems (IFS), developed by Richard Schwartz, and Resource Therapy (RT), developed by Professor Gordon Emmerson.

While both models share a foundation in the multiplicity of the mind, they differ significantly in their clinical application. These differences come into sharp focus when we look at the ultimate mechanism of change: Memory Reconsolidation (MR).

illustration of a ship's bridge in chaos. Small, distressed characters representing "Vaded" and "Conflicted" parts are fighting over the controls. A calm, capable "Resource State" in a captain's uniform walks in to take the wheel. Bottom right features the Australia Resource Therapy Institute logo
Tired of the inner mutiny? Resource Therapy helps you move from internal conflict to having a stable “Captain of the Moment.

Two Pathways to the “Captain”

Consider a client overwhelmed by a memory of rejection—a state we call “Vaded in Rejection” in Resource Therapy. The system is in a form of “Internal Mutiny,” where this part is hijacking the steering wheel.

1. Internal Family Systems: The Reflective Approach

Schwartz (2021) suggests that the goal is for the client to access a core state of calmness, compassion, and clarity, known as “Self-leadership.” The clinician helps the client identify the distressed part and facilitates a process of “witnessing” its burden without becoming blended with it. The objective is to help the distressed part (the “Exile”) trust the leadership of the “Self” (Schwartz, 2021).

2. Resource Therapy: The Active Approach

Resource Therapy is a brief, psychodynamic protocol that takes a more direct interventionist stance (Emmerson, 2014). We do not just observe the Vaded State; we speak directly to it. The clinician diagnoses the specific pathology using the 8 RT Pathologies and then applies a targeted Treatment Action for the part to return to it’s good purpose (Emmerson, 2014).

Emmerson (2014) prioritizes ensuring that a supportive Resource State is present in the moment to act as the stable Captain of the Moment. The focus is on active processing and re-assignment of the part’s role, rather than reflective dialogue (Emmerson & Essing, 2025).

Unifying neuroscience: The Critical Role of Memory Reconsolidation

Regardless of the clinical approach, true therapeutic change requires Memory Reconsolidation. This is the brain’s biological mechanism for “unlocking” and permanently updating a distressed emotional learning (Ecker et al., 2012). For MR to occur, three core conditions must be met: Activation, a Mismatch Experience, and Updating (Ecker, 2018).

A clinical diagram of the Memory Reconsolidation process in Resource Therapy. It shows a dark red "Vaded" neural pathway being "unlocked" and updated by a gold "RT Treatment Action" beam, leading to a bright green, stable, and integrated neural network. Labels include Activation, Mismatch Experience, and Updating. Bottom right features the Australia Resource Therapy Institute logo.
The Science of Change: How Resource Therapy (RT) facilitates permanent Memory Reconsolidation by meeting the brain’s three conditions for neuroplasticity.

When we look at how different models trigger this process, the distinction between Reflective and Action-Oriented work becomes clear.

Reflective vs. Action-Oriented: Regaining the Captain

ApproachIFS (Internal Family Systems)Voice DialogueEgo State TherapyResource Therapy (RT)
Model of LeadershipSelf-Leadership (unblending)Balancing OppositesIntegrating PersonalitiesRe-assigning the “Captain”
The Therapist’s RoleObserving and facilitating conversationModerating a dialogueTraditional psychodynamic guideDirectly empowering the correct State
PacingCan be slow and exploratoryConversationalVariableBrief, targeted, and active
Goal for the “Normal” StateTo become the compassionate observerTo find balance between opposing forcesTo integrate into a wholeTo return as the stable “Captain of the Moment”

This table visualizes how the different approaches seek to resolve the internal mutiny and restore the stable “Normal” state as Captain. In models like IFS, the “Self” provides a stable ground for witnessing. In RT, the therapist actively introduces a mismatch experience by bridging a capable Resource State directly to the distressed (Vaded) State, triggering the “Unlock and Update” conditions for Memory Reconsolidation (Ecker et al., 2012).

Parts Work Power

Internal Family Systems offers a powerful path toward internal compassion and understanding. For many clinicians, however, Resource Therapy provides the essential “Next Generation” tool for rapid clinical action.

By mastering the diagnostic mapping and targeted interventions taught by the Australia Resource Therapy Institute, psychologists can offer their clients a neuroscientifically backed, brief path from “Internal Mutiny” to a stable, resourceful Captain of the Moment.


References (APA 7th Edition)


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