Most relationships don’t end because of a lack of love.

They drift apart because they lose the language of connection.

After 1.5 years of advanced training and mentorship (and yes, more than a few late nights and chocolate fixes along the way), I am honoured to share that I am now a certified Imago workshop presenter, accredited to deliver the internationally acclaimed Getting the Love You Want couple’s workshop.

The first in-person Sydney event will be held on 7–8 March 2026. For couples who can’t travel or are balancing parenting and busy lives, we’ll also be offering an online evening option — like a live class you can join from your sofa once the kids are in bed.

💙 Why Couples Choose This Experience

This isn’t ordinary couples counselling, and it’s not relationship therapy. It’s an immersive, experiential weekend that helps partners:

Break the cycle of conflict and rediscover safety
Reignite intimacy not just sex, but affection, laughter and joy
Feel seen and understood in a way that softens defences and opens hearts
Move from autopilot to intentional connection, learning a new language of love

And it’s not just for couples in crisis.

Many attend because things are good, but they want to go even deeper.

Think of it as relationship coaching at its highest level: a chance to take a good relationship to extraordinary depth.

We live in an age where love is tested by work demands, endless screens, and family pressures. Couples often find themselves “fine” but not fulfilled. Others slip into what I call the silent divorce, living side by side, yet emotionally worlds apart.

This workshop offers an antidote.

It’s where couples pause, breathe, and rediscover the spark that first drew them together.

It’s about love that not only endures but stays passionately alive.

Chris often jokes that when we met through dancing, we weren’t just learning steps we were learning how to lean in, listen and move together. That’s exactly the spirit of this workshop: finding your rhythm again.

Philipa Thornton certification badge as Imago advanced Clinical Therapist in Sydney and on line

Proven worldwide – delivered in over 30 countries for more than 40 years
Grounded in science – built on neuroscience, attachment theory, and empathy-based tools
Safe and private – all core work happens between you and your partner
Transformational – many couples describe it as “months of therapy in two days”

And it’s delivered by a partnership, too. Alongside me will be my husband, Chris Paulin, consultant psychologist, co-founder of the Australian Resource Therapy Institute, and co-director of Marriage Works.

Chris has been my steady support throughout this journey (he likes to say he’s my “number one fan and loudest cheer squad”, and he’s right). Together, we bring decades of clinical experience and a shared passion for helping couples heal and thrive.

Do we share personal issues in public?

No. All core work is private with your partner. Demonstrations are sometimes offered so couples can see how the dialogue unfolds. Some choose to volunteer because it helps everyone learn — but it is always optional.

Can I join if I can’t attend in person?

Yes. For those balancing parenting, long work hours, or who live outside Sydney, we offer an online evening format. The same tools and practices are delivered live across several evenings, designed to fit into everyday life.

When is the next workshop?

The first in-person Sydney workshop will be held on 7–8 March 2026. Online evening options will also be available. Early-bird pricing and dates will be released first to the waitlist.

Whether you’re seeking repair after disconnection or wanting to elevate a strong relationship to the next level, this is your invitation to invest in love that lasts.

👉 Join the Sydney launch waitlist now for priority access to the 7–8 March 2026 workshop and early registration for the online evening program. Join the Waitlist Here

This certification is more than a credential; it is a mission. I believe every couple deserves the chance not just to survive together. But to thrive, to experience love that is safe, vibrant, and alive with possibility.

I am deeply grateful to Chris, my husband, co-founder, and constant support, for walking this path with me. Together at Marriage Works and the Australia Resource Therapy Institute, we are committed to helping couples and therapists globally.

Love is the greatest investment you can make.

And in March 2026 in Sydney, we look forward to welcoming couples ready to begin that journey.

Wow where has the year gone? We at the Institute would like to wish you a safe, refreshing and joyous festive season. Thank you for all your support, deeply appreciated and we hope to see you soon – Sydney, Bali or Vietnam possibly?

Personally it’s been a year of new togetherness for Chris and I as we bought an apartment and renovated. Boy I had to find a Project Management part.

Who knew what about kitchen renovations!

We are sad for the loss of our dear cat Taneisha, and her dear friends Pepi the Chihuahua and Apollo the German Shepard may they be in the light at peace.

Plus in Australia we are dealing with huge bush fires that are wreaking havoc. Our hearts go out to all those affected.

To all the worldwide firefighters thank you

As a Facebook post said so eloquently ” May the tears you cried in 2019 water the seeds you’re planting for 2020.” A nice reminder out of grief there is often growth.

Here is my early Christmas present from my darling husband Chris – welcome little Yoda out of Shiloh, who’s mum was Cherub, who’s mum was Taneisha. Little kitten blessings he’s resting now on my lap,purring away, having played himself out.