Here is the next video in the Vaded State series – dealing with Resources States Vaded in Fear and how this assists them to return to their Normal condition and be free from the past.
The Resource Therapy Actions involved in Vaded in Fear work are applicable to dealing with PTSD, Addictions, Dissociation, Imposter Syndrome, Generalized Anxiety, OCD, Phobia’s and Panic attacks. Although there may be more involved and you may require the Vaded in Rejection series coming up soon. These are taught on the Foundation Training workshop – Resourcing our Clients come and learn for yourself!
Vaded in Fear and Vaded in Rejection Resource states are often stuck in the past and we need to help them heal in the present. Resource Therapy teaches us how to effectively get results for clients.
Here I am discussing how to use the Resource Therapy Vaded in Fear protocol.
If you are in Sydney I will be presenting a workshop at the Randwick Mental Health Professionals Network May 13th 6pm-8m on working with States Vaded in Confusion – healing traumatic bereavement whilst aiding in the repair of guilt and shame. Please send me an email philipathornton@gmail.com and I will add you to the registration – YOU must Register as places strictly limited and it’s expected to sell out! It’s free and so great value and professional points and networking with other therapists.
On a phone call my client had become very distressed upon finding out news regarding the family member who had sexually assaulted her as a young girl.
Feelings of low self worth and the effects of trauma can be intergenerationally transmitted
Part of her was angry and had naturally attempted to find solace with her mother who is in her 80’s. Unfortunately her mother is unable to offer emotional support – saying to her daughter ” I was raped in my 20’s and got over it, so just get over it and put it behind you.”
Understandably my client felt justifiable anger and disappointment with her mothers response.
I said to her we actually haven’t worked with this hurt part and it would be good to do to address this part directly when I saw her next.
Hurt parts can heal with Resource Therapy
She began to cry and speak in a softer tone and I said ” I can hear your hurt part- you sound younger – can I call you ” Little One”. My client said yes. I said thank you and I would like to get you the help you need right now, is that ok with you Little One? Yes she responded affirmatively.
I called out the client’s name Jenny, I know if you saw a little girl who was feeling hurt, sad and alone, like you love your own daughter, you would crawl over glass to get to her to help her. ” Yes.” Jenny how would you want to help her? Jenny responds I would want to cuddle her. I said thank you that’s wonderful and super helpful – what can I call you? “Nice Mum.”
I said “Nice Mum you are awesome thanks for being here. Just you reach out to Little One as she’s all alone and draw her into your heart right now and let the warm glow of your unconditional love, safety, support and sanctuary flow into her being like a wonder wave.” I bet Nice Mum you love to do this… She said “yes”
And Nice Mum what do you want “Little One to know?”” I accept you”replied Nice Mum . I went back to Little One. “Little One” how does that feel you heard Nice Mum she accepts you and you are in her heart?” Little One “Safe. And Accepted.” That is wonderful, I said and I am so glad you have the unconditional love, support and safety all little girls and boys deserve.
I had tears in my eyes, I was so moved.
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My client said ” I feel complete, its like I feel totally accepted deep in the catacombs of my being.” “It is so profound I don’t have the depth of words to describe the peace I feel. ”
This small exchange happened in the last ten minutes of a 40 minute phone call, demonstrating the effectiveness of Resource Therapy.
I am continually amazed at how rapidly Resource Therapy’s trauma interventions work for long lasting client change. This is why I am passionate about bringing Resource Therapy training to the world of therapy.
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